retnavy":20wbbbra said:
All very nice boats. Very good comments about the boats and individual selection process. I have been seriously shopping for either a C-dory, Osprey, Parker, or Ranger for months now and can not convince my wife that she would be happy cruising on any of them. She is convinced they are all too small for extended cruising.
If you have to "convince" her, perhaps it's time to re-think. Small boat cruising isn't for everyone. Have you two ever done any camping? RVing? If she has nothing to compare, bring her to a C-Brat gathering, where she can meet plenty of other wives who are happily cruising. For some folks, it's less about the size of the boat and more about the unknown of daily life while cruising... and if you tell her about it, it's not the same as if she hears it from someone (especially female) who has been out there.
While you might think differently with things I've said about other boats in this thread, we both really enjoy our C-Dory 25. Check out our cruising thread (let her read it) -
http://www.c-brats.com/viewtopic.php?t=5212&start=0
If she doesn't like to read the forum, you can always get her a book about a couple and their cat who retire and take off cruising. :wink:
It's not unusual to have concerns about the unknown, especially when a big investment like a boat is involved. What if we don't like it? What if I don't like it? How do we not get hopelessly lost at sea? What if the weather is bad? How can we go out for lunch if we're on a boat? How do we get our mail? Where am I going to go to the bathroom... and where does it go? What if I get sea-sick? What if I miss my friends? How will I ever find another hairdresser? Can you really cook on one of those little boats? I saw Gilligan's Island - where did Ginger come up with all those clothes?
And every one of those questions is valid. Things are different on a small boat... but it's a difference that many of us here find refreshing. A new way to look at things; our own small floating cabin; a magic carpet to take you to interesting places, away from the crowds; a pace that you determine.
This past year, I asked Joan how she felt about looking at a bigger boat... "Look all you want, but Wild Blue is just plain easy and I like it!"
The only "convincing" I had to do when we went to the boat show in 2006 to look at C-Dorys was picking which model... I was thinking price and was pushing for the 22. She saw the extra room, storage space, fridge, hot & cold pressure water, and more on the 25, and said, "That one." So much for convincing. :wink:
If you aren't both on-board... well, you know.
Best wishes,
Jim B.