I do not have a wedge on my mount (water closet PVC mount). A lot of the time when I really need the radar, I am at slow speed, and no bow rise. 2 to 5 degrees is the usual amount of a wedge if you want to use one for a Tom Cat. I have put the dinghy over both the AC and Radar.
I am surprised that your boat does not have a 360 degree light--what do you do for an anchor light, or white steaming light? (Lights, if you have separate forward and aft white lights).
Yes, I try and back up any hardware I put on the top, either with back up plates or fender washers.
I did measure my boat for some one in the past, but it is kept most of the time on the lift. On the Float on Trailer it is somewhere about 12 feet high. My RV is 13 feet--and antennas above that--so I occasionally get some "ting ting's" as I drive under bridges. (I had the same problem--slower speed--when I had a boat with 63 foot mast, plust 3 foot antenna, and 65 foot bridges on the ICW.