I cannot tell you which thru hull is the best, just what I did and the reasoning.
The plastic thru hull does not fit as flush as the metal ones, which concerned me, a little. I think the metal ones are a little stronger, but with today’s plastic, I believe they (the plastic ones) are more than adequate. Metal is more expensive than plastic. Corrosion is not a problem with plastic, while it can be with metal. Metal thru hulls are either brass, stainless or chrome. The only metal one I could find in the size I wanted was brass. What it finally came down to was what would look best on the boat. Brass would not match the other metal items on my boat so I got a plastic thru hull that matched the boat color.