Lots of variables in the dry start equation.
The engines I am most familiar with where there is detailed documentation (as opposed to 'I know a guy who' ) is aircraft engines.
The typical light airplane engine with a private owner, that often sits for weeks, or even months, between starts will have a hard time reaching the manufacturers rated overhaul time of, say, 2000 hours. (most do not)
The exact same engine in a commercial setting, such as powerline or pipeline patrol, or flight training school, that is run daily will often last 150% and maybe even 200% longer, between overhauls compared to the engine that sits for long periods between starts.
Now marine engines are in a different - and corrosive - environment and are water cooled. so the comparison is not necessarily one to one.
Still one can readily see that piston bores that have become dry, or maybe even having a fine patina of rust, when being started will suffer more metal grinding and wear for each start than an engine that has a slick, oily bore during starts. The same analogy goes for bearings, gear teeth, etc.
The old canard of use it or lose it is based on reality.