I could use some positive energy...

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JamesTXSD

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We got the call in the middle of the night that no one wants... my Mother has had a stroke. Yes, that would be the same lady who celebrated her 90th birthday just over a week ago. I am back at the airport, ready to board again. Somehow the TSA stuff seems less significant this morning.

I spoke with the doctor who treated her in the ER and the nurse at the Stroke Center... not encouraging news. My Mother spent 6 months in a bedside vigil, watching her sister whither away years ago. Being in a similar situation is her worst fear.

If you have the time today, a positive thought, a prayer, whatever works for you, sent out to Nellie would be greatly appreciated. I hold her medical power of attorney, have discussed this before hand with her, and have communicated her wishes to the medicos. I had to give her some "tough love" to get her out of the nursing home a few months ago when she fell and broke her pelvis. "Toughing this one out" isn't an option.

Sincerely,
Jim B.

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On edit:

My last flight into SUX is delayed over an hour. The young lady at the counter can't say why, or even if the flight will go out. I've been calling between flights for updates. I am told a slight improvement... and anxious to get there to assess the situation in person.
 
Jim, you have all our thoughts and prayers and as much positive energy as we have! Hope you get out soon and by her side quickly.

Fly safely!

Charlie and Sally
 
You have my thought and good wishs for your mother. Always know you are not alone in the world and a day with family, even in bad times is a good day.
 
Jim -- our thoughts are with you.

My mother is 90.5 and quickly approaching the end of her run -- every time my brother texts me I think twice about whether I need to have the flight schedule in hand as I open it.

Best wishes.

Bill Uffelman
Usually Las Vegas NV
 
Jim, Thinking of you and sending lots of positive energy your way. Also, thoughts and prayers sent to Nellie. May she be blessed with the best outcome possible.

Robbi
 
Damn, Jim...news no one wants to hear. You and you family our in M's and my thoughts and prayers. Having gone thru similiar a little over a yr ago I understand the anxiety, stress, sadness...like I said, best thoughts and prayers to you, your mom and your family from Meredith and I.
 
Jim, you've got all the positive energy I can muster heading your and your mom's way. I'm hoping for the best outcomes possible.
 
Jim,

Prayers for Nellie, for peace and calm, and for healing if it is the best thing for her. Prayers for you and your family for understanding and strength, and safe travels. You all have been richly blessed by her presence, and now it your turn to "be there for her". Have strength my friend, and peace.

It was May 27, I was in Logan UT, just going to bed after a nights work when I got that call -- my Dad, unconscious after a severe stroke, a major bleed. It was a long days drive to Portland OR. He waited for me, unconscious, but I know he knew I was there. And then it was over. The blessing of a major stroke, no debilitating, lingering personless life. Peace and acceptance with closure.

Wishing you all the best,

Harvey
SleepyC :moon
 
May the knowledge of your mom's enduring love for you give you strength at this difficult time. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Dot and Marty
 
Jim,

You know it already. Moms are special.

Hang in there you have one heck of a bunch rooting for you and her.

Merv & Kathy
 
Jim, Willie and I are putting Nellie (and you and Joan) on our prayer list. We will also pray that you will make the right decisions for her care. Let us know what we can do here on this end.

Willie and Herb.
 
Jim-

My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your mom tonight!

It's a difficult time, and we wish the best for both of you with as little suffering as possible.

Peace be with both of you.

Joe. :rose
 
My sincere thanks.

It's been a very long day. In spite of what the doctor told me this morning, Nellie is not only still with us, she could talk when I got there. "The shell" is not in good condition, but her cognitive is mostly there. How that frail little bit of a woman continues to fight is pretty impressive. Please know that I could feel your good wishes, and I am so grateful.

I'm going to try to get some sleep, hope that she is able to rest, and take on this situation with the help and advice of the medical folks.

I will read these posts to her tomorrow.

Just a bit overwhelmed,
Jim
 
Hi Jim,

Sorry to hear about your mother. Our thoughts and positive energy is with you. We hope tomorrow brings a brighter day and an improving condition.

Steve and Karen
 
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