Chuck.... While a bit sketchy in my mind, I seem to remember several 'fixes' for some of those problems in various threads here. One major thing, when I was considering a 25, C-Dory went to great lengths to advise a singe engine to reduce the weight aft. Also, that 3K Honda is a great genset, but oh what a weight increase! So right off the bat, you have chosen two things to reduce performance and interfere with a level waterline.
Several mentions have been made about reverse flowing scuppers while cranking up heavy crab pots, etc., and several mentions of fixes have been listed for that.
The new TomCats and Cd-25s come with the toilet atop a 9 gallon holding tank right there in the shower and Pat Anderson's "Airhead" composting toilet installation (shown on his photo album) both raise the seat to a more comfortable height. You can get that head thru West Marine and other sources , or maybe your current toilet will mount over a similar tank.
By cutting back on the gallonage of the holding tank, and moving it to the head compartment, room was left to move the freshwater tank back where the old holding tank used to be.
Several ppl, Brent on Discovery for one, have mentioned using the space forward of the dinette for stowage instead of a forward facing front dinette seat. You could strap some kind of hanging closet in that space.
The TC 255 Thataway had a fuel vent problem and found the vent hose running down into the hold before coming back up and outside. I think they found a faulty releif valve that fixed that problem.
Owning the first few of a new model encumbers one with some unforeseen problems to be worked out later. I think you are lucky to have a wife that would let you sail for over fifteen years!!! Sometimes, when things are stressed, one or two simple things can push one over the brink into a fit. I would advise addressing her concerns while trying several fixes to the easy to solve boat problems and maybe only take the wife out when everything is low stress and under control a bit more.
Also, maybe the fishing tackle,tools, etc., could be kept outside the cabin most of the time you are aboard. As Jim TX says, shelves and mesh hammocks in the V-berth help out down there. I would measure the space forward of the dinette and see if you can find a storage case to fit there or have a handyman make a small removable hanging locker.
Don't give up! hang in there and patiently address each problem.....John
Several mentions have been made about reverse flowing scuppers while cranking up heavy crab pots, etc., and several mentions of fixes have been listed for that.
The new TomCats and Cd-25s come with the toilet atop a 9 gallon holding tank right there in the shower and Pat Anderson's "Airhead" composting toilet installation (shown on his photo album) both raise the seat to a more comfortable height. You can get that head thru West Marine and other sources , or maybe your current toilet will mount over a similar tank.
By cutting back on the gallonage of the holding tank, and moving it to the head compartment, room was left to move the freshwater tank back where the old holding tank used to be.
Several ppl, Brent on Discovery for one, have mentioned using the space forward of the dinette for stowage instead of a forward facing front dinette seat. You could strap some kind of hanging closet in that space.
The TC 255 Thataway had a fuel vent problem and found the vent hose running down into the hold before coming back up and outside. I think they found a faulty releif valve that fixed that problem.
Owning the first few of a new model encumbers one with some unforeseen problems to be worked out later. I think you are lucky to have a wife that would let you sail for over fifteen years!!! Sometimes, when things are stressed, one or two simple things can push one over the brink into a fit. I would advise addressing her concerns while trying several fixes to the easy to solve boat problems and maybe only take the wife out when everything is low stress and under control a bit more.
Also, maybe the fishing tackle,tools, etc., could be kept outside the cabin most of the time you are aboard. As Jim TX says, shelves and mesh hammocks in the V-berth help out down there. I would measure the space forward of the dinette and see if you can find a storage case to fit there or have a handyman make a small removable hanging locker.
Don't give up! hang in there and patiently address each problem.....John